'Heidi Fleiss of Houston' Case Brings Back Memories of Kathy Willets Here in Broward

There is a nice picture of Kathy Willets taken by Sun Sentinel Photographer Lou Toman on the wall of the Floridian Restaurant on East Las Olas. And if you walk a few doors down to my news stand, you can buy the 1992 edition of Playboy with Anna Nicole Smith's debut cover story. That surprising issue, now selling for one hundred bucks, also features the famous story of local hooker Kathy Willets, her deputy sheriff husband Jeff, and their amazing prosecution here in Broward, filming the vice mayor and other prominent society types doing the nasty.



It occurred to me that 1992 is well, 18 years ago, that there are young lawyers who may know nothing at all of that which I speak. They know not of hookers and housewives and husbands secretly filming their tricks while hiding in a closet and the nationwide newsworthiness which followed the breasted busts. Florida's Naughty Nympho is today I think a Vegas escort. You can google her, or just call Jamie Benjamin for an appointment :-)



But nothing in the news is really new. It is a repeat of an old story made new. So today in Houston we learn that a group of lawyers on the ‘Heidi Fleiss of Houston’ client list may be interviewed by other attorneys working the case. So it may be a surprise to some but not to those of us in South Florida who have already marched through that legal muck.


An arrest of the alleged "Heidi Fleiss of Houston" netted a white-collar client list of 1,500 or so, which includes a number of attorneys, reports the Houston Chronicle, based in part on court documents. We had a bank of two dozen attorneys fighting not to release those 'John Doe' lists because they were not really john does. They were us.


There apparently is extensive documentation of the customers who patronized a prostitution business allegedly operated by Deborah Turbiville, 33, and her 31-year-old husband, because it reportedly required background checks before it would accept a new customer. The two are charged with aggravated promotion of prostitution, a third-degree felony.


Authorities plan to talk with apparent patrons of the alleged prostitution service, the newspaper writes: "Because of the extensive documentation collected, investigators plan to interview those named on the client list. They have not disclosed any of the names." But when they do, the sparks will fly and the divorce papers will file....

'Eleven Things About Sex Lawyers and Judges Should Know'

Here is a Guest Blog written by Dr. Marty Klein, intriguing and inviting.

Because I periodically appear in court as an expert witness, and consult with lawyers and people in trouble, I’ve learned a bit about what attorneys and judges know about sex. Like physicians, physical therapists, and psychologists, it’s very little. They really need to know more.

Not about fallopian tubes and HIV, but about the role sex plays in real peoples’ lives. About how they actually make decisions. And about how Americans are more similar to each other in the bedroom than the overheated rhetoric of Bill O’Reilly and the abstinence-only crowd suggests.

The justice system gets involved with sexuality on an almost daily basis. Sex comes up, for example, in custody hearings, domestic violence cases, questions about the legality of one teen having sex with another, claims by Wal-Mart photo developers that a bathtub shot is child porn, and demands that a public statue be taken down because it’s “offensive.”

In order to make our justice system more fair and less punitive, here are just some of the things I wish more lawyers and judges knew about sex:

* Many people who lie to their mates about sex are, in every other way, good partners.

* People into kinky sex can be perfectly good parents. In fact, millions of good parents are into kinky sex. Think only bad parents buy butt plugs and wear see-through blouses?

* Knowing what porn a person looks at, or what their sexual fantasies are, doesn’t tell you anything about that person.

* Even the most conservative-sounding people do outrageous sexual things at home.

* With 50,000,000 Americans watching porn each month, you can’t predict anything about someone based on whether or not they watch porn.

* There’s a dramatic difference between violence and S/M. Violence is coercive. S/M is consensual. Violence is done to someone. S/M is done with someone. The victims of violence don’t control its boundaries. Participants in S/M determine its boundaries together. In summary: there are no “victims” of S/M, even if someone’s choice is ill-advised for them.

* Most women who act in porn films either don’t mind or actually enjoy it. Those who do it just for the money prefer this way of making a living to their other options.

* When talking to their doctors, therapists, clergy, pollsters, and the media, adults lie about what they do in bed. When they do, they almost always understate the variety and frequency of what they do, and the number of people they do it with.

* There’s no such thing as sex addiction. There’s people making poor sexual decisions all over the place (there’s big news!), but almost all of them could make different choices if they really, really wanted to. To indulge our cravings may not be wise, but it’s rarely sick.

* Science has never shown that people who watch porn behave any differently than people who don’t.

* The majority of kids sexually exploited by an adult know the offender. Therefore, protecting kids from being molested by strangers is a huge waste of money, time, and attention that could actually be used to help make kids safer.

Dr. Marty Klein is a California based Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Certified Sex Therapist, and sociologist with a special interest in public policy and sexuality. He has written 6 books and over 100 articles about sexuality. Each year he trains thousands of professionals in North America and abroad in clinical skills, human sexuality, and policy issues. Marty’s current award-winning book is America’s War On Sex: The Attack on Law, Lust, & Liberty.